I can never say I know how you feel to a black person because I never will. I am white, growing up in a white town on Long Island there were only two black families in my town. I never thought much of it as a kid. I remember there was a Baptist church in my neighborhood and on Saturdays I could hear them worshipping and having a good time. My mother always told me never to go over there as I would question what they were doing. It sounded like they were…